What I Learnt. About- people.

Sometimes, you just gotta “forgive and forget” like people have always said.
You may not like what the other person has done to you, it may always be stored in your mind.
However, take a step back and remind yourself that it’s really okay unless the person has done something wrong to a horrible extent.
So, take it easy and just don’t think about it anymore.
If the person can make you happy most of the time and make a difference in your life, then why not? They’re worth keeping then.
Forgive those friends, forgive anyone and just be happy.

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January

#happy #happiness #forgive others #forgive #reminder #note to self #me #mine #by me

“How does memory beguile and save and guide us? How can we keep our innocence once we have tasted evil? How to forgive those who have hurt us irreparably?”

Death and the Maiden

- Ariel Dorfman

(Source: musichealsall)

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April

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Respect.

If you don’t know how to respect a person,

whether it’s your parents, friends, or just people in general… 

then don’t expect them to treat you properly either. 

Why? Because YOU DON’T DESERVE THEIR KINDNESS.

No one likes it when people don’t know how to respect them,

no one likes it when people are not loyal and lie, 

no one likes it when they get treated like toys,

no one likes it when they get betrayed

no one likes it when people just use them and dump them away like they were nothing,

and no one likes it when people act like they don’t give a shxt just to appear tough on the outside,

because we all know that’s not the real case. 

You’re all really just trying to look brave and strong to show how cool you are but you’re really just weak and hurting on the inside. 

So seriously.. for whatever you have done, face up to it and act like a man.

If you know that you’ve been an asshole, don’t feel guilty and hide in a shell forever because it’s not going to get you anywhere.

You need to come out of that shell and know how to face someone who you’ve hurt.You can’t just go into someone’s life, get attached to them, and throw them away when you feel like you don’t want or need them anymore. That’s just freaking low. 

Instead, you apologize. You show them you know you’ve been a bad person for hurting them. So what if they don’t accept your apology? At least you’ve done your part well and that would show you’re brave and mature enough to face them. So what if you think that person hates you or will ignore you? It shows you’re strong enough to admit your faults.

Plus, if you’re going to go around like you don’t even know the person you hurt then you’re just immature and a big chicken. It shows you’re scared to face up to what you’ve done. At least acknowledge the person and try talking to the person to show that you’re actually not that bad of a person. Show that you’re not an asshole, but someone who actually does have a good heart deep down. 

Next time you’re going to do something so rude and disrespectful to a person, just remember that there are people who are going to hurt you in life and you will regret one day when someone hurts you so bad and leaves you like you were completely nothing. You’re going to regret the person you’ve hurt and you’re just going to carry that guilt on and on. I doubt you’d be happy with that. It’d probably kill you mentally because when you hurt someone, you hurt yourself too. 

I just want you to know that I forgive you for whatever you did regardless how much of a douchebag you were. But show some respect and matureness in knowing how to acknowledge the person you’ve hurt. Show that you’re not an asshole and a chicken because once upon a time ago, you shared happy moments with that person you’ve hurt and you shouldn’t forget that. Because in every bad, there is good. 

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January

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Never looking back.

yeah, it was too fun.

yeah, it was too sweet.

yeah, it was too cute.

yeah, it was a dream.

yeah, it was paradise.

yeah, it was the best.

yeah, it gave me the best feeling in the whole wide world.

yeah, it was everything that i ever wanted.

yeah, sacrificed so much that it’s crazy.

yeah, treated you better than i’ve ever treated myself.

yeah, cared for you like @#*@(*#)(*!()!@, ya knowww.

yeah, it was good times, u agree.

but ya know whattttt„„„„„„„

after all the things you’ve put me through?

i’m never going through something like this EVER again.

no one knows what “this” is, but that’s alright. don’t wanna freak them out. 

i’m never going to torture and hurt myself like this anymore.

i can’t stand seeing myself do something this painful physically and mentally.

i can’t stop hiding this inner feeling which i never let out to anyone anymore.

i can’t constantly lie to people when they ask me if i’m okay. 

it’s killing me and it’ll just ruin me in the end. i’m pretty sure that pain changes people and i do agree. it in fact did. it’ll be mentioned later on. 

butsss, yeah… goodbye to doing all those things for my own good.

i mean, what else is there for me to say or do right?

even if i do spill my heart out, would it make a difference?

i’m guessing probably not, it won’t even be worth it.

there’s this quote and it says, “if you could read my mind, you would be in tears”.

i’m sure if you could, you really would be.. in tears. no lies. no exaggerations. you really would. i swear you would. 

but now that it’s finally clear to me who you really are.

i guess the person i’ve always thought you were..

was just all my own imagination.

oh silly silly me, but it’s okay. 

it’s cool, really.

“after all we’ve been through, i know we’re cool”.

we are, trust me. we really are. zhen dehh.

it’s up to you how you want to leave it.

remember what you asked me in the end?

you asked me something and without answering.. 

i asked YOU and you responded. i hope we could go with the answer you gave. 

anyhow.. i’m fine now, and i’ll be okay.

thanks for making me stronger than before. that’s what changed. 

thanks for making me realize how strong i can actually be to have to go through all this. 

^_^+ i can be proud and mature enough to say that i forgive you.

i hope you see this, i do.

yarr.

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January

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thanks for making me stronger.

hey you,

long time no talk.

you see..

for whatever we’ve been through,

we can’t go back in time and change anything.

but honestly, that’s really okay for me.

although there were plenty of hurtfulness. mental and physical pain&breakdowns. scars involved. etc. or whatever. 

whatever it was, whatever it is,

i don’t blame you,

for whatever you did.

i don’t hate you,

i don’t regret you,

the thing is,

i can actually be proud and say that… i forgive you,

I Forgive You.

you may not believe me,

but what i’ve said above are true

and that’s that.

i’m not saying that people could just come into my life and hurt or treat me like that and walk away, 

but i understand, i understand you. 

and hopefully, one day.. one day…… you could understandme too.

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January

#strong #stronger #thank you #note #:) #forgiveness #forgive